Exploring a WOMEN's need for SEX and LOVE. Walking the path to being free and open with our SEXUALITY.
Friday, September 10, 2010
Coming Back Soon
I just have been feeling overwhelmed about A LOT so haven't had much time to sit down a blog. But I do have great topic ideas coming soon. Im not out of the blogging game as of yet...
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Say When...
So last night I had this Epiphany... I NEVER MADE LOVE...I might have came close but never actually made love. I live for moments, beautiful magically moments.. and that love making moment needs to happen perfectly. Maybe its the Pisces in me...always dreaming, always in a pool of emotions. I heard the song "Say When" by the Fray.... OMG!!! All I know is I want to feel the love in that song personally. If someone can make love to me right with that song then I am theirs forever and ever. I know it might sound a bit much for just a song but when I tell you this song touched me, I am not lying I had it on replay like 50 times and my BFFs car battery died just cuz we listened to this song over and over and over. This is my ultimate love song. I never had a straight love making experience and when I see it happening I see it done with this song...Damn. But I am weird...maybe you will feel what I felt when you listen to this song and maybe you will think the song is crap...but regardless let me know how it made you feel...
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Music Makes Me Loose Control
I can't speak for anybody else but when I am in the heat of passion I love smooth grooves behind me sound tracking my every move. Music puts me in the zone and gives me the foundation on the theme to my sex session. I hate to have the television on during sex because it just has to many random commercials and shows. Quiet sex is something to be had, because if done right you are dealing with serious raw passion. Its just music keeps it interesting. Music gets you prepped for the experience, brings you to the climax and eases you on down to bliss.
There is a little sexy rain drizzle going on where I live tonight. On nights like these, if I am not getting loved down I like to sit in my car, smoke a L with my girl and listen to music. That is what ended up happening tonight. So in my play list I have a song called "Slow" by Jamie Foxx. This song is what women want. So I am laying back just feelin the song. This song rang Seduction.....
Sexcapade # 2
You and your man just came home from an evening fulled with good food, good convo, a few drinks and a sexy ambiance. You both are dressed to kill. Looking at each other with fire in your eyes and consumed with the feeling of pure physical sexual attraction. He walks into the room taking off his shoes, but then jumps into the middle of the bed fully dressed. There are no lights on the room besides the spark of light coming from the hallway. "Slow" by Jamie Foxx is now on. Your looking at your man from the doorway. Both sets of eyes are locked on each other. You start in towards the room. You start to move to the music and then stripping to the music. Make sure you keep your 4inch "Fuck Me" Pumps on until your exotic dance is over. Your are twirling, bending, grinding and he is laying their eyes locked on your curves riding the music wave. His imagination now has him thinking of you riding him. You know what he is thinking and you want to give him what he wants. You walk towards the bed and ask him "You want me?" Of course he will nod yes. Then you ask him, "You want me to ride it?" He then speaks up with lust and love in his voice he says "Come ride Daddy's dick" You slip your shoes off, crawl seductively towards him and then straddle. You start to kiss and strip of his clothes piece by piece. You tease his body with your hair, lips, and fingers. Lightly feathering every spot that you know is sensitive to him. The deep kissing and the close embrace gets your pussy dripping. He is kissing, licking, grabbing and slapping your body. He drinks you in like you are his life elixir. Slip his hard dick in and cruise...Give him the ride that he craves.. This will be a slow ride.... You will be sweating out the sheets because of the heat, friction, and fire that this night can not help create.
There is a little sexy rain drizzle going on where I live tonight. On nights like these, if I am not getting loved down I like to sit in my car, smoke a L with my girl and listen to music. That is what ended up happening tonight. So in my play list I have a song called "Slow" by Jamie Foxx. This song is what women want. So I am laying back just feelin the song. This song rang Seduction.....
Sexcapade # 2
You and your man just came home from an evening fulled with good food, good convo, a few drinks and a sexy ambiance. You both are dressed to kill. Looking at each other with fire in your eyes and consumed with the feeling of pure physical sexual attraction. He walks into the room taking off his shoes, but then jumps into the middle of the bed fully dressed. There are no lights on the room besides the spark of light coming from the hallway. "Slow" by Jamie Foxx is now on. Your looking at your man from the doorway. Both sets of eyes are locked on each other. You start in towards the room. You start to move to the music and then stripping to the music. Make sure you keep your 4inch "Fuck Me" Pumps on until your exotic dance is over. Your are twirling, bending, grinding and he is laying their eyes locked on your curves riding the music wave. His imagination now has him thinking of you riding him. You know what he is thinking and you want to give him what he wants. You walk towards the bed and ask him "You want me?" Of course he will nod yes. Then you ask him, "You want me to ride it?" He then speaks up with lust and love in his voice he says "Come ride Daddy's dick" You slip your shoes off, crawl seductively towards him and then straddle. You start to kiss and strip of his clothes piece by piece. You tease his body with your hair, lips, and fingers. Lightly feathering every spot that you know is sensitive to him. The deep kissing and the close embrace gets your pussy dripping. He is kissing, licking, grabbing and slapping your body. He drinks you in like you are his life elixir. Slip his hard dick in and cruise...Give him the ride that he craves.. This will be a slow ride.... You will be sweating out the sheets because of the heat, friction, and fire that this night can not help create.
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
PORNOS R BORING AND SEXEST
99% of the porn movies I have viewed pretty much goes like this. Girl is on screen, Guy caresses Girl's Breast, Guy or Girl takes of Girl's shirt, Guy licks Girl's Nipples for 30 sec, Guy takes off Girl's panties, Guy examines Girl's Pussy and Ass, Guy MIGHT finger and lick pussy/ass for 1-2 min tops!!! Then Girl takes of Guy's pants and sucks Guy's dick for 10 min or more....Then Guy proceeds to fuck girl 5 different ways...Then it ends with Girl sucking Guy's dick to spray cum on Girl's face or Guy just nuts on Girl's face after last fucking position.
So here I am thinking that is how sex goes for all these years and then I realized one day why does sex have to be about the Guy's NUT???? I am not saying to make it all about the women's but why can't after the Girl getting nut sprayed all over her face, Guy can't say "lay back" and he gets to work on her again. Why can't he lick her until she cums all over his face???? Or here is a better idea...how come Guy won't play with Girl until she cums crazy when he does it earlier in the scene? I promise you Guys that if you make a girl cum she will suck and fuck your dick like your dick is the last dick in the world. All a girl needs is a little encouragement sometimes.
I don't watch a lot of porn because for me it doesn't seem believable with it's weirdo old men that the Barbie doll looking women let take over their bodies for the men's pleasure. Especially in the amateur pornos the girls even kinda look like they are in pain or just plain bored. You can tell they are doing it for the money. I just think that there should be some movies that show that women LOVE A GOOD CUM as much as a man does and that man knows how to show it and give it to her.....If there were more like that I would be a paying customer. Not only for visual pleasure but to up my game. I can't up my game if every scene goes the same way.... idk. What do you think??? I must admit I have never had a situation where I just got my pussy licked for the hell of it or even if there was fucking involved they guy wanted to make me cum again after they came. Usually the sex is over after the guy nuts and even if you restart the action it just goes back to the beginning of the same usual scene...So I guess that's my new fantasy!! WOMEN WE MUST FIGHT FOR OUR SEXUAL RIGHTS!!!
Friday, June 11, 2010
SULTRY_K'S FAVORITES
I wanted to do a blog on some of the things I am in LOVE with right now and keeps me on the path of GOOD and SEXY LOL!!!
FRAGRANCES: DEEP AQUA and BLACK AMETHYST by BATH AND BODY WORKS
Deep Aqua smells like Clean, Sexy, Tropical, Morning Dew. The shower gel is so invigorating but the smell is not to flowery or girlie. This scent inspires me to put on that pencil skirt and blouse and be that confident women that knows what she wants and exactly how to get it. The key fragrance notes are crisp melons, water blossoms, dewy gardenia, and white woods. So for that fresh smell through the day that will have guys wanting to lick u all up and bathe in your essence I say go with DEEP AQUA. Even the name turns me on, cuz its like SEX in the SHOWER!!!
Black Amethyst is definitely my night time scent. OMG it is SEDUCTION IN A BOTTLE. To me that says it all. I really like it because again I do not like flowery girlie scents and its a great mixture between a MAN and WOMEN, perfume and cologne, doing the horizontal tango on your body. When I am going out on a hot date, night on the town, or getting ready for hot sex this is exactly what I am wearing on my skin. They key fragrance notes are Italian Bergamot, Rare Camellias, Exotic Sandlewood, and Vetiver. It just gets you in that mood....
SULTRY_K'S BOOK OF THE MONTH
This is a book about a women with an alternate personality that she is unaware of. This personality is ADDICTED to SEX. This a crazy roller coaster ride...shoot she is on a roller coaster ride lol. What would you do if you woke up one morning with your PUSSY hurting and Cum shots all over your clothes and you had no clue on how it happened????
Tomorrow I will talk about my Favorite Music right now and Favorite Sex Techniques....Stay tuned!!!!
Monday, June 7, 2010
HE LOVE THE WAY I'M RIDIN....
It's so sexy to men when a women knows what she wants and what she has to do to get it. So when it comes to sex a women that is not afraid to hop on her man's dick and ride that sucka gets an A++ from me. Riding dick takes poise, attitude, confidence and some serious LEG MUSCLES. There are so many amazing ways to ride with so many amazing views and sensations. Personally I enjoy facing forward and sitting down on the dick...with you feet flat on the floor,bed or chair it's easier for me to bounce fast and hard. Then when my legs get tired (I need to do some lunges) I straddle him with my knees down, arms above his head and rock. I love it when he spreads my ass open for deeper action. YUM!! I honestly hate beds because they are to bouncy and turn me off my rhythm. I like to get my slow grind on if you know what I mean. Now if I am riding with my back facing him, I like to be on my knees, holding his ankles and do a smooth rock. This gives a perfect pic of ass that can drive a man insane. Usually that leads to a rough banging from the back LOL.
Anyways...I chose this topic because Ciara's new video Ride has me SOOOO Inspired and I hope after watching it you wanna be better at the Cow Girl Game. First I wanna point out that I so wanna do a strip tease dancing like Ciara and booty poppin all over the bedroom for my boo...then next hopping on and taking him for a spin... Check the Video below..... Here are some of the lyrics.... Please respond on this post, I wanna here how you ride or how you like to be rode!!
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Anyways...I chose this topic because Ciara's new video Ride has me SOOOO Inspired and I hope after watching it you wanna be better at the Cow Girl Game. First I wanna point out that I so wanna do a strip tease dancing like Ciara and booty poppin all over the bedroom for my boo...then next hopping on and taking him for a spin... Check the Video below..... Here are some of the lyrics.... Please respond on this post, I wanna here how you ride or how you like to be rode!!
I can do it big
I can do it long
I can do whenever or however
You want
I can do it up and down
I can do circles
To him I’m a gymnast
This one is my circus
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Thursday, June 3, 2010
NO SEX IN THE CHAMPANGE ROOM...OR ANY ROOM IT SEEMS
So I'm hearing a lot of nonsense about couples who live together or are married that have lost the sex spark. I do not live with a significant other and have no real insight on how it is possible for a sex life to fizzle, but I SWEAR I will not allow this madness to occur. I am going to be real and say that sex would be half the reason that I would want to live with my boo...THE GREAT SEX ON DEMAND. My mouth waters just thinking about it, how about yours???? Am I wrong to think that everyday should be a new sexual adventure?? I mean I know there are a lot of every days but hey it pushes you to get creative and get active. Its doesn't always have to be full blown intercourse but it can be a simple as giving your lover some brain when he comes home from work. No questions asked...unbuckle belt...get on your knees and SUCK!!!
MY REMEDY:
A book called 101 Sexy Dares by Laura Corn. I swear by this book. The reason this book is so great is because it gives you 50 sealed dares to do to your man and he has 50 dares to do to you. Also there is 1 at the end of the book that you can do together. It even has specific dares to do on certain holidays..Holiday Sex Wow!!! After reading this book it inspired me to try writing a few dares or SEXCAPADES as I call them, to keep my sexual creativity going. Now the sexcapade is not a whole story but it's a scenario to get the bedroom steamy or maybe even some vacant champagne room.
SEXCAPADE # 1
Your man is sitting in the chair. Hands tied. You wear that lil thing that he likes and if you are really bout it you buy something new. You know your man knows you are a keeper when you come to bed and come to his dick wearing something new and making your pussy feel new. When he is sitting in the chair, hands tied, you turn on the music and slowly do that strip tease. Take your time. Get nasty with it. Let him examine you with his eyes up close and personal. Get in his lap. Dance on him. Rub your naked body on him. Make him wanna touch you, grab you. He wants to kiss you, lick you but you dodge him. You make him scream in aggression on the verge of being angry. If you really got him in the tease, he has now got a carnal appetite for sex. Ask him if he is ready for your wet tight pussy and then.......LET YOU IMAGINATION RUN WILD
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Why Not Eat...Why Not Dine
Is it me or is there an alarming amount of men out there who still do NOT EAT PUSSY?? Seriously what it up with that. In my investigation on the matter I get stupid answers like because Its just something I don't do, or because women bleed (even though only once a month and due to new technology for some women not at all) I still have not heard a justifiable reason why they don't..... Most men who don't eat it would want a women to get on there knees for them...HEY I'M JUST SAYING
Guys...I don't mean do it to just any and every girl BUT at least have an open mind to it for the right one. Let the situation move you. JUST DON'T LIMIT YOURSELF SEXUALLY. Think of it like food...your just not going to eat every bodies Mac and Cheese...especially if it doesn't look or smell right. But when a pretty pussy is in your face and you want to give your women the ultimate pleasure PLEASE DINE on her.
Women...PLEASE fight for your sexual rights...I know girls who have never ever had their pussy licked any type of way. I say 50% of the guys who don't lick the kat probably is not even acknowledging the clit. IF THEY DON'T ACKNOWLEDGE THE CLIT THEN THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR SEXUAL PLEASURE. A lot of women are nervous to talk about sex and that is definitely is NOT OK. Why have sex if there is no great return??? Also women please return the favor...I feel just as passionate about that as this this issue. Whats wrong with giving your man sexual pleasure...They love it.. Shoot I love it. SUCKING DICK TURNS ME ON...
MORAL of my blog is...Don't limit your sexuality.. Please be selective on who you show your freak nature to because everybody doesn't deserve it but when you do find the right one give it your all. If you limit your relationship in bedroom which is one of the best parts of a relationship then how does that play out in the other aspects of your relationship.
Guys...I don't mean do it to just any and every girl BUT at least have an open mind to it for the right one. Let the situation move you. JUST DON'T LIMIT YOURSELF SEXUALLY. Think of it like food...your just not going to eat every bodies Mac and Cheese...especially if it doesn't look or smell right. But when a pretty pussy is in your face and you want to give your women the ultimate pleasure PLEASE DINE on her.
Women...PLEASE fight for your sexual rights...I know girls who have never ever had their pussy licked any type of way. I say 50% of the guys who don't lick the kat probably is not even acknowledging the clit. IF THEY DON'T ACKNOWLEDGE THE CLIT THEN THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR SEXUAL PLEASURE. A lot of women are nervous to talk about sex and that is definitely is NOT OK. Why have sex if there is no great return??? Also women please return the favor...I feel just as passionate about that as this this issue. Whats wrong with giving your man sexual pleasure...They love it.. Shoot I love it. SUCKING DICK TURNS ME ON...
MORAL of my blog is...Don't limit your sexuality.. Please be selective on who you show your freak nature to because everybody doesn't deserve it but when you do find the right one give it your all. If you limit your relationship in bedroom which is one of the best parts of a relationship then how does that play out in the other aspects of your relationship.
Yes!! This is a Sex Blog
I have an insatiable appetite for sex. I wake up in the morning thinking about it and I go to sleep thinking about. I definitely do not feel I get it as much as I want it so its something that I crave. I believe many women feel this way. I believe many women have fantasies that if created would drive them to the point of ecstasy. I'm just creating an environment for myself and you the reader to explore those fantasies and even the duds of active sexuality as a women.
" "SEX" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other."
Marquis De Sade, L'Histoire de Juliette
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